Lately I have been a real slut and have even been using Craigslist to get laid. I'm 21 and didn't lose my virginity until I was 20 and now I have slept with so many guys I don't even know how many. Last night I went on Craigslist to the Casual Encounters section and responded to a few ads. I ended up chatting with a few guys and going over to one of their houses and sleeping with them. When I got home I got horny again and ended up going to a different guy's house and slept with him too! I didn't even take a shower between sleeping with the two guys and I feel so ashamed.

I think my problem started when I was 20. I was working at a restaurant and went on break at the same time with this really cute guy. I gave him a blowjob in the alley behind the restaurant and that was the first time I ever had oral sex. I let the guy cum in my mouth and when he was finished he immediately went back inside and told EVERYBODY about it! I ended up quitting my job that night and running out crying. For some reason I quickly started having sex with random guys mostly at parties.

I was getting a reputation as a slut and my friends knew about a lot of the guys I slept with. So to keep my sluttyness more on the down low I started using Craigslist. At first I was nervous meeting someone off of Craigslist for sex but that quickly changed. Now I am the point where I go on Craigslist respond to a few ads and end up letting these complete strangers do dirty things to me. I have even had anal sex without a condom with a guy I just met for the first time off Craigslist. Now generally I do use condoms, but that was a major mistake and it's sickening the guy would even do that as well.

I don't know, I think I need to find some sort of sex addicts anonymous type meeting or something.

Not to make light of your problem but where were you when I was 21? I'm turned on just reading this.

Originally Posted by BlazingSaddles

Not to make light of your problem but where were you when I was 21? I'm turned on just reading this.

Really not appropriate when someone is seeking help.

As for your situation, it clearly sounds like you have a sex addiction and need to get control of it really soon before it effects your life in a huge way. Firstly i would suggest that you maybe get a boyfriend and have sex with only him, even if it is a lot and he gets tired of it. Next i think you should use a dildo or a similar device when ever you are in need of pleasure, this may allow you to take a bit more control over yourself. These are not to be permanent though, this is just to get a bit of control while you seek help. The next step is seeking help because sex addiction really is a problem. There will be a somewhere in Vancouver where you can go to talk to other suffering a similar situation, you need to find such a place.

The consequences of you not taking control of your life are not good. You will lose all respect for yourself, may catch an STD/STI, could get pregnant by accident, will lose your friends and will feel more alone then ever and find that you are never completely satisfied with sex.

I urge you to seek help, it would be a huge shame for you to just give into your addiction and through away your life.
Best of luck and if you ever need someone to talk to, don't be afraid to get in contact with me!