The i have done it now part 2

[Glen]

HI all, i need to vent again sorry. Some of you may remember this thread . I would read this before you read on lol

Well i have done it now

So the rules where set and the have abided by these rules since then. I seems to be spending most of his time over at her house during the week which i guess is kinda of good gives me the space to do what i want. BUT....

Recently i started talking to this girl, whom lives over in Brisbane. Now my brother had been talking to this girl for months before this "current one or cling on" as i call her came on the seen .They would be up all night talking / txting etc. He went over to see her.

Now, this girl added me on facebook and we got talking and he got wind of this and got all cut at me because he was worried about that i would let this "fling" he had with this girl slip and destroy what he had with this other girl. I was constantly in my ear who you talking to etc. I told him insecure much?

The other thing is my parents haven't seen him in about 3 or more weeks because he is always up at her joint which upsets them a little. Even when he is home she comes over here. It's now wednesday we were going to go up to my grandfathers for dinner, he rang him and said no we can't because he has the flu ( my grandfather is a severe asthmatic if he got that he would be in a lot of trouble ) So we went up and go our food and bought it back home. Where home 5 minutes and gets who is at the door? We have not had a night in this house together or a family thing for about 2 months since she has been here.


The bottom line here is that since this girl has come on the scene, We as a family are not communicating any more, we don't have a normal sunday night family dinners with just the four of us nor do we go out. He has become so much more aggressive towards my parents particularly my mum

Now if we have these he has to bring her along to them which then disrupts the night because we want to talk family stuff.

I don't no what to do, my parents don't no what to do. Anyone got some advise. Has any one been in this situation before?

[Timothy]

Haha mate you have NO IDEA how much i have been and am still in this situation!! My brother Daniel did the same thing about a year ago, she slowly came on the scene, started to take up some of his time, then started to hang with me, she's 21, I'm 16, lol yes it was probably not my proudest moment We didn't do anything, just spent time together. My brother started to get really jealous and aggressive towards everyone. Eventually they became clung to each other and she was crazy clingy towards him, he couldn't see his friends anymore. He has always been cut off and never shared his feelings, he is also an undiagnosed alcoholic. They began to lie all the time about small things, then big things. Then she started to turn him against us all and by the end he moved out with her. He then moved in with her, the police were called on two occasions to domestics. they went to Melbourne because she convinced him that it was Perth that was making them act the way they are. In Melbourne, he had another fight with her because she was saying that if he left her, she'd kill herself. He then made the news as the "Naked Skinny Dipper", you can find it on youtube. After what happened in the video, he attempted suicide, came back to Perth, took her back and is now still with her god knows where.

She is absolutely off her head crazy. LOL I'm sorry that i haven't yet given you any advice. I'm just trying to show what the circumstances are if you do tell them that you are unhappy with the relationship! I suggest that you just leave them. Him spending heaps of time with her, is better then him hating your family and running off with her where things will spiral out of control. Just try not to piss him off and let it fizzle out mate.